Another day in the life

I am going through a lot with my family and things are becoming clearer with their true intentions. I realize that I have two choices, and both can possibly feel uncomfortable. I definitely can't keep giving into them and be miserable. Standing up to them, which I am doing in some areas, can temporarily make me feel guilt and discomfort from their petty words, actions, and negative judgments. I hate that they refuse to acknowledge my point of view and loosen the reins on my life. I often struggle to understand if they care so much why don't my needs matter.

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